• Life

    The Psychology behind ‘Sit like a Lady’

    “Is that how women are doing it nowadays?” she asked me as she stood across me on the other side of the mall lobby area.  I looked up from my phone that I was very focused on and looked at the woman speaking. She was looking at me, but I looked around at the empty lobby to make sure there was no one else she could be speaking to.  The mall in my town of living is small, and not very attractive. It was always dead in there, and this day was no different. There was one couple of people walking toward my way with their toddler in a stroller.…

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    How to Make Affirmations Work for You

    Affirmations are popular today. The word has gotten out about positivity and being kind to yourself.  And this is a good thing, because now, more people are aware of how they treat and talk to themselves. They know now, what a big, powerful tool it is.  Many people, however, say daily affirmations but see no change in their lives. And this is due to: not performing the affirmations correctly. Understand that your brain is like a satellite tower. It sends signals to your body and your emotions.  Whatever you are allowing in your mind, will affect your body and emotions. Women Winter Fashion! Trendylov If you have low self esteem…

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    11/11/11: My 11/11 Journey and Guidance for Yours

    Seeing 11:11 There is a phenomena when one begins seeing 11:11 everywhere.  And it is believed to be a significant sign in one’s life. 11 is one of three master numbers (11,22,33) and it is the number of knowledge and intuition.  Angels, God, or the Universe (Whichever you call it) use numbers to communicate with us here in the 3rd dimension. The 11 symbolizes the potential to push the limitations of the human experience into the stratosphere of the highest spiritual perception; the link between the mortal and the immortal; between man and spirit; between darkness and light; ignorance and enlightenment. This is the ultimate symbolic power of the 11.…

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    Celebrate Being a Woman!

    Women, we have come a long way.  We used to be confined to the home and kitchen areas.  Now we work and make careers for ourselves.  Women before all of us today, have fought for us, to give us a say in society.  And I am ever so thankful to them.  Those brave women, stood firm and strong in their power.  They spoke up and acted to make a change.   Women are multifaceted, complex beings.  We are full of love, emotion, intelligence, and creativity. See, womanhood is a power that we all hold. There is nothing that we can’t do.  But many women just can’t see the power they hold…

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    How to Know You Are On the Right Path

    Life moves so fast and we get caught up in the speed and turmoil sometimes.  With all of our daily activities, things can become blurry.  It can make you feel as if you are lost or like you don’t know which direction you are going.  Our dreams and goals can get pushed to the back of our minds in order for us to take care of the primary responsibilities.  Sometimes our dreams get put on hold completely. As a result of putting our goals on hold we may wonder if it is even worth it to try.  Or you may wonder if you are even on the right path in…

  • Life,  Spirituality

    Meditation for Manifestation

    Meditation has so many benefits, such as stress relief and relaxation.  It can lower blood pressure and encourage better eating habits. People don’t know this, but it can help you manifest as well.  You can manifest more money, a happier marriage, a dream career and the list goes on. Every living thing on earth is energy.  Everything emits it’s own vibrational frequency.  The energy human beings emit is supposed to look like this. It should flow smoothly, in one direction altogether.Women Winter Fashion! Trendylov   But instead, most of our vibrations are irregular, unaligned, and ridgety.  Our vibrations are out of sort because our minds are not in a good…

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    An Alternative Suggestion of God

    I grew up going to church with my mother.  Every Sunday we would go, and I took that religion as an adult with a family of my own.  We went religiously, and did the best we could to walk the straight path. But being a christian was exhausting for me. I felt guilty everyday about my downfalls, or ‘sin’.  Everyday I would repent, only to perform the same sin as before: Cursing, getting very angry, gossiping.  I finally got tired of it and decided I didn’t want to live the rest of my life feeling guilty, or ‘condemned’.  I didn’t want to spend the rest of my days saying sorry,…

  • Life

    Signs you’re made to be a writer

    So many people want to write for a living.  I mean, it allows you to create, be your own boss, and manage your own schedule.  Being the boss and schedule manager allows you to work from home in your pajamas! Who wouldn’t want to write?  Since I am a self-proclaimed writer, I know what it takes to be one and I also know how to tell if you are really supposed to be one.  This is just for fun so if these don’t resonate with you, I say try it for yourself. Write, and see how it goes. You never know till you try. So here are some signs you…

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    Dreaded Isolation

    Isolation by definition is  the act of keeping apart from others; the condition of being kept apart from others;  For us, it means being alone. And as human beings we were never meant to be alone (Genesis 2:18). We fill our days with tasks to avoid it.  Such as work, watching television, listening to music, and socialising. We do all this to avoid the quiet sound of alone. We don’t like it because being alone can create feelings of despair, depression, and anxiety.  But even though it isn’t fun or likable, being alone can help us. Sometimes it is necessary for us. In the Bible, there were many times Jesus…

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    Your Reason for Existing

    Life is good and life is bad.  We have to make a mindful effort to make the best of it everyday.  One of the best ways to live a happy life is to find your dream or purpose for living, and start doing it.  Mark Twain said “The two most important days in life are the day you are born and the day you discover the reason why.”  Most people live their whole lives, never knowing their purpose for being here  because figuring out your meaning and purpose is very puzzling. I have grappled with this myself for some time.  Just when I thought I figured it out, things happened…